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In the midst of twixtmas, a glorious spring day.

Sound dating advice from Les Liaisons Dangereuses

When I peep the marvis toothpaste in my christmas stocking

“It was a pleasant enough fantasy. I did well within it, better, in fact, than I had while my office, my clients, my work, had been serious matter, hard-core reality. As is only right in one’s fantasy, I was at ease, relaxed, calm. I won a new account one day, charmed a colleague into peace after months of altercations the next. I worked tirelessly, suspended. Minor annoyances over which I would have fretted in the past—a phone call not returned, a longer than reasonable wait for a client’s decision, a coffee stain on my sleeve half an hour into my day—no longer mattered…The reality of my days was replaced by surface equanimity and a blandness to the core.”

—Elizabeth McNeill, Nine and a Half Weeks

Visiting the ducks will cure whatever ails you.

I wasn’t sure how I felt about this play while I was watching it, but now I can’t get it out of my head.

I heard a bird sing

In the dark of December.

A magical thing

And sweet to remember.


“We are nearer to Spring

Than we were in September,”

I heard a bird sing

In the dark of December.

—Oliver Herford

“Every couple lives in the shadow of the third, whether they admit it or not, and in some sense, it is the lurking presence of potential others that consolidates their bond.”

— Esther Perel, The State of Affairs